If you have suddenly found that your relationship is over and your ex is all of a sudden dating another guy, you can use this to your advantage. Getting your ex girlfriend back is actually easier for you if there is a rebound relationship in play.
How do you know if she is on the rebound?
The easiest way to tell is by the personality of the new bloke she is dating. You may be a person that goes clubbing with your mates at the weekends and the new guy is often the complete opposite from yourself and enjoy staying in at the weekends. The behaviour differentials are what makes the new bloke, the typical rebound. He becomes a replacement for the one true love that isnt there anymore.
There is going to be something that was missing between you both that your ex girl feels the need to replace within her life. Elements that you may not have given her. If she needed to feel close to you and didnt, the bond may not have met her needs. While she does have true feelings for you, she needs that bit more and may have ended it on a rash decision not properly thought over. This in turn creates a need to fill the gap she now has in her life.
The key to getting your ex girlfriend back when a rebound relationship is in play is to let it run its course. She will realize in her own time what aspects it is about you that she loves the most. Dont go chasing after her to convince her that you are the man for her. Let your ex find that out for herself. She needs to come to her own conclusions. Dating someone on the rebound is always a short-term fixed and rarely works out, so dont feel threatened that you may lose her for good. The new guy will be the opposite to your personality and you are going to be getting compared to him constantly in her mind. She will continue to think about you in comparison and remember all your good traits more than the difficult times. Over time she discovers everything she misses about you and will seek your company again.
When she does get in to a position where you find she is getting closer to rekindling your relationship, dont promise her all the changes in the world to make you a better partner. Only promise what you can stick to. You don t want to overdo the changes of yourself that she fell in love with to start with. Simple things like being more considerate to her feelings is a promise that can be kept without changing yourself too much.
How do you know if she is on the rebound?
The easiest way to tell is by the personality of the new bloke she is dating. You may be a person that goes clubbing with your mates at the weekends and the new guy is often the complete opposite from yourself and enjoy staying in at the weekends. The behaviour differentials are what makes the new bloke, the typical rebound. He becomes a replacement for the one true love that isnt there anymore.
There is going to be something that was missing between you both that your ex girl feels the need to replace within her life. Elements that you may not have given her. If she needed to feel close to you and didnt, the bond may not have met her needs. While she does have true feelings for you, she needs that bit more and may have ended it on a rash decision not properly thought over. This in turn creates a need to fill the gap she now has in her life.
The key to getting your ex girlfriend back when a rebound relationship is in play is to let it run its course. She will realize in her own time what aspects it is about you that she loves the most. Dont go chasing after her to convince her that you are the man for her. Let your ex find that out for herself. She needs to come to her own conclusions. Dating someone on the rebound is always a short-term fixed and rarely works out, so dont feel threatened that you may lose her for good. The new guy will be the opposite to your personality and you are going to be getting compared to him constantly in her mind. She will continue to think about you in comparison and remember all your good traits more than the difficult times. Over time she discovers everything she misses about you and will seek your company again.
When she does get in to a position where you find she is getting closer to rekindling your relationship, dont promise her all the changes in the world to make you a better partner. Only promise what you can stick to. You don t want to overdo the changes of yourself that she fell in love with to start with. Simple things like being more considerate to her feelings is a promise that can be kept without changing yourself too much.
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